ಜೀವನದ ರಹಸ್ಯ , ಕೆಲವು ನುಡಿಗಳು

ನಮ್ಮ ಆತ್ಮೀಯರೊಬ್ಬರು ಕಳುಹಿಸಿದ . ಜೀವನದ ಬಗೆಗಿನ ಕೆಲವು ಮೆಲುಕು ಹಾಕುವಂತ ನುಡಿಗಳು ಮಧ್ಯವಯಸ್ಸಿನ ನಂತರ* *

೧.  ಜೀವನದ ರಹಸ್ಯ

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೨.  ನೀವು ಸಾಧ್ಯವಾಗುವಷ್ಟು ನಿಮ್ಮ ಜೀವನವನ್ನು ಅನುಭವಿಸಿ

  ೩.   ಎರಡು ಹೆಜ್ಜೆ ನಡೆದು ದುಃಖ ವ್ಯಕ್ತ ಪಡಿಸಲೂ ಸಾಧ್ಯವಾಗದಷ್ಟು ಮುದುಕರಾಗುವ ವರೆಗೆ ಮುಂದೂಡಬೇಡಿ, ಎಲ್ಲಿಯವರೆಗೆ ನಿಮ್ಮಿಂದ ಸಾಧ್ಯವೋ ಅಲ್ಲಿಯವರೆಗೆ ಮೊದಲೇ ನೀವು ನೋಡಬೇಕೆಂದಿರುವ ಸ್ಥಳಗಳನ್ನು ಭೇಟಿ ಕೊಡಿ, ನೋಡಿ ಬಿಡಿ.

೪.  ಅವಕಾಶ ಸಿಕ್ಕಾಗಲೆಲ್ಲಾ ನಿಮ್ಮ ಹಳೆ ಸ್ನೇಹಿತರು ಗುರು ಹಿರಿಯರು ಇವರುಗಳನ್ನು ಬೇಟಿಯಾಗಿಬಿಡಿ,  ಮುಂದೆ ಅವರೆಲ್ಲರನ್ನು ನೋಡುವ ಅವಕಾಶ ಸಿಗುತ್ತೋ ಇಲ್ಲವೋ.

೫.  ಬ್ಯಾಂಕುಗಳಲ್ಲಿ ಇಟ್ಟ ನಿಮ್ಮ ಹಣ ನಿಮ್ಮದಾಗಿ ಇರದಿರಬಹುದು, ಅದಕ್ಕೇ ಅದನ್ನ ಖರ್ಚು ಮಾಡುವ ಅವಕಾಶ ಸಿಕ್ಕರೆ ಖಂಡಿತಾ ಅನುಭವಿಸಿ, ಇದಕ್ಕಾಗಿ ನೀವು ನಾಳೆಯ ಬಗ್ಗೆ ಯೋಚಿಸ ಬೇಕಿಲ್ಲ

೬.  ಏನೆಲ್ಲಾ ತಿನ್ನ ಬೇಕೆನಿಸುತ್ತೋ ತಿಂದು ಬಿಡಿ, ನೀವು  ಖುಷಿ ಯಾಗಿರುವುದು ಮಾತ್ರ ಮುಖ್ಯ ಆದರೆ ನಿಮ್ಮ  ಆರೋಗ್ಯಕ್ಕೆ ಒಳ್ಳೆಯದಾದ ಆಹಾರಗಳನ್ನು ಯಾವಾಗಲೂ ತಿನ್ನಿ, ಅದೇ ನಿಮ್ಮ ಆರೋಗ್ಯಕ್ಕೆ ಹಾನಿಕರವಾದವುಗಳನ್ನು ತಿನ್ನಲೇಬೇಕೆನಿಸಿದಲ್ಲಿ ಒಮ್ಮೊಮ್ಮೆ ಮಾತ್ರ ಸ್ವಲ್ಪ  ಸ್ವಲ್ಪವೇ ತಿನ್ನಿ.

೭.  ಅನಾರೋಗ್ಯವನ್ನು ಸರಿಯಾದ ರೀತಿಯಲ್ಲೇ ಕ್ರಮಿಸಿ, ಬಡವರಾಗಿರಲಿ, ಶ್ರೀಮಂತರಾಗಿರಲಿ, ಪ್ರತಿಯೊಬ್ಬರೂ ಹುಟ್ಟು, ವಯಸ್ಸು, ಅನಾರೋಗ್ಯ, ಮತ್ತು ಸಾವು ಈ ಚಕ್ರದಲ್ಲೇ ಸುತ್ತಬೇಕು. ಇದಕ್ಕೆ ಶಾಶ್ವತವಾದ   ಪರಿಹಾರ ಎಂದೂ ಇಲ್ಲವೇ ಇಲ್ಲ. ಇದೇ ಜೀವನ.

೮.  ನೀವು ಅನಾರೋಗ್ಯವಾಗಿರುವಾಗ ಹೆದರುವುದೂ ಬೇಡ, ಬೇಸರವೂ ಬೇಡ. ನಿಮ್ಮದೇನಾದರೂ ಬಾಕಿ/ ನೀವು ಪರಿಹರಿಸಬೇಕಾದ /ಇತ್ಯರ್ಥವಾಗಬೇಕಾದ ಸಮಸ್ಯೆ ಇದ್ದರೆ ಅದನ್ನು ಆದಷ್ಟು ಬೇಗ ಇತ್ಯರ್ಥಗೊಳಿಸಿ ಮತ್ತು ನಿರಾಳರಾಗಿ.

೯.  ನಿಮ್ಮ ದೇಹವನ್ನು ವೈದ್ಯರೂ, ಜೀವನವನ್ನು ದೇವರೂ/ ಪ್ರಕೃತಿಯೂ ಮತ್ತು ನಿಮ್ಮ ಮನಸ್ಥಿತಿಯನ್ನು ನೀವೂ ನೋಡುತ್ತಿರಿ.

೧೦.  ನಿಮ್ಮ ಚಿಂತೆ ನಿಮ್ಮ ಅನಾರೋಗ್ಯವನ್ನು ಸರಿ ಪಡಿಸುವದಾದರೆ ನೀವು ಸದಾ ಚಿಂತಿಸಿ, ನಿಮ್ಮ ಆಯುಷ್ಯವನ್ನು ಚಿಂತೆ ಹೆಚ್ಚಿಸುವುದಾದರೆ ನೀವು ಸದಾ ಚಿಂತಿಸಿ, ಮತ್ತು  ಸಂತೋಷಗಳಿಗೆ  ಚಿಂತೆಗಳನ್ನು ಬದಲಿಸ ಬಹು ದಾದರೆ ಹಾಗೇ ಮಾಡಿ .

೧೧. ಮಕ್ಕಳು ಅವರ ಭವಿಷ್ಯವನ್ನು ಖುದ್ದು ಮಾಡಿಕೊಳ್ಳುತ್ತಾರೆ. ಅವರ ಬಗ್ಗೆ ನೀವು ಜಾಸ್ತಿ ಚಿಂತಿಸುವದು ಬೇಡ

೧೨.  ಹಳೆಯ ನಾಲ್ಕು ಖಜಾನೆಯನ್ನು ಸರಿಯಾಗಿ ನೋಡಿಕೊಳ್ಳಿ  
             ೧.   ನಿಮ್ಮ ಹಳೆಯ ದೇಹ : ನಿಮ್ಮ ಆರೋಗ್ಯ ಮತ್ತು ದೇಹಸ್ಥಿತಿಯ ಬಗೆಗೆ ಜಾಸ್ತಿ  ಕಾಳಜಿ    ನಿಮ್ಮದೇ ಇರಲಿ
          ೨.     ನಿಮ್ಮ  ಆರ್ಜಿತ  ಧನ ನಿಮ್ಮ  ಕೈಯಲ್ಲೇ ಇಟ್ಟುಕೊಳ್ಳುವುದು  ಅತ್ಯಂತ ಒಳ್ಳೆಯದು.
          ೩.     ನಿಮ್ಮ ಹಳೆಯ ಸಂಗಾತಿ ಅತ್ಯಂತ ಅಮೂಲ್ಯ ಖಜಾನೆಯಿದು, ಪ್ರತಿ ಕ್ಷಣವೂ ಅನ್ಯೋನ್ಯವಾಗಿ ಸಹಚರರಂತೆ ಬಾಳಲು ಪ್ರಯತ್ನ ಪಡಿ , ನಿಮ್ಮಿಬ್ಬರಲ್ಲಿ ಒಬ್ಬರು ಮೊದಲು ಕೈ ಬಿಡುವಿರಿ ( ಈ ಜಗದಿಂದ)
         ೪.     ನಿಮ್ಮ ಹಳೆಯ ಸ್ನೇಹಿತರು:  ಇವರನ್ನು ಸಿಗಲು ಸಾಧ್ಯವಾಗುವ ಪ್ರತಿ ಕ್ಷಣಗಳನ್ನೂ ಸಿಕ್ಕಿ ಅಸ್ವಾದಿಸಿ, ಏಕೆಂದರೆ ಕಳೆಯುತ್ತಿರುವ ಪ್ರತಿ ಕ್ಷಣಗಳೂ ನಿಮಗೆ ಅಮೂಲ್ಯವಾಗಿ ಕಡಿಮೆಯಾಗುತ್ತಲಿರುತ್ತದೆ.

 13. ದಿನಾ ನೀವು ಅವಶ್ಯ  ಮಾಡಲೇಬೇಕಾದ ಮುಖ್ಯ ಎರಡು ಕೆಲಸಗಳು  " ಹಸನ್ಮುಖಿಯಾಗಿ  ಮತ್ತು ನಗುತ್ತಿರಿ

14. ಹರಿಯುತ್ತಿರುವ ನೀರು ಹಿಂದಕ್ಕೆ ತಿರುಗದು,ಅಂತೆಯೇ ನಮ್ಮ ಜೀವನ, ಅದಕ್ಕೇ ಸಂತಸವಾಗಿಸಿರಿ.

15. ದೇವರು ನಿಮ್ಮ ಚೆನ್ನಾಗಿ ಖುಷಿಯಲ್ಲಿಟ್ಟಿರಲಿ.

ಈ ವಿಷಯಗಳನ್ನು ಸಾಧ್ಯವಾದಷ್ಟೂ ಬೇಕಾದವರೊಡನೆ ಹಂಚಿಕೊಳ್ಳುತ್ತಿರಿ.

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*ಒಂದು ರಶ್ ಆಗಿದ್ದ ಬಸ್ ನಲ್ಲಿ ಪ್ರಯಾಣ ಮಾಡುತ್ತಿದ್ದ ಯುವತಿಯೊಬ್ಬಳ ಹತ್ತಿರ ಕೈ ತುಂಬಾ ಬ್ಯಾಗುಗಳೊಂದಿಗೆ ವೃದ್ಧೆಯೊಬ್ಬಳು ಬಂದು ಕುಳಿತರು. ಆಕೆಯ ಬ್ಯಾಗುಗಳಿಂದಾಗಿ ಆ ಯುವತಿಗೆ ಕುಳಿತುಕೊಳ್ಳಲು ಸ್ವಲ್ಪ ಕಷ್ಟವೇ ಆಯಿತು. ಆ ಯುವತಿಯ ಅವಸ್ಥೆಯನ್ನು ನೋಡಿದ ಪಕ್ಕದಲ್ಲಿ ನಿಂತಿದ್ದ ಒಬ್ಬಾತ ಆ ಯುವತಿಯತ್ರ ಕೇಳಿದ - ನೀವು ಯಾಕೆ ಪ್ರತಿಕ್ರಿಯುಸುತ್ತಿಲ್ಲ? ಆ ವೃದ್ಧೆಯತ್ರ ಬ್ಯಾಗುಗಳನ್ನು ಕೆಳಗಿಡಲು ಯಾಕೆ ಹೇಳುತ್ತಿಲ್ಲ?*

*ಆಗ ಆಕೆ ಮುಗುಳ್ನಗುತ್ತಾ ಹೇಳುತ್ತಾಳೆ - ಇಷ್ಟು ಚಿಕ್ಕ ವಿಷಯಕ್ಕೆ ನಾನು ಯಾಕೆ ಪ್ರಾಧಾನ್ಯತೆ ಕೊಡಬೇಕು?* *ಆಕೆಯ ಜೊತೆ  ಚರ್ಚಿಸಬೇಕು, ನಂತರ ಜಗಳ, ನಂತರ ಕೋಪ , ಆಮೇಲೆ ದ್ವೇಷ ಹುಟ್ಟಿಕೊಳ್ಳುತ್ತದೆ. ಕೊನೆಗೆ ತಾಳ್ಮೆಯೇ ಕಳಕೊಳ್ಳುತ್ತದೆ. ನಾನು ನೆಕ್ಸ್ಟ್ ಸ್ಟಾಪಲ್ಲಿ ಇಳಿಯುತ್ತೇನೆ. ನಾವು ಒಟ್ಟಿಗೆ ಸಾಗುವ ಈ ಪ್ರಯಾಣವು*

*" ಇನ್ನು ಸ್ವಲ್ಪ ದೂರ ಮಾತ್ರ " .....*

*ನಿಜವಾಗಿಯೂ ಜೀವನದಲ್ಲಿ ನಾವು ಅಳವಡಿಸಿಕೊಳ್ಳಬೇಕಾದ ಒಂದು ದೊಡ್ಡ ಸಂದೇಶವನ್ನೇ ಆ ಯುವತಿ ಹೇಳಿರುವುದು.....!!*

*ನಾವು ಒಟ್ಟಿಗಿನ ಈ ಪ್ರಯಾಣವು " ಇನ್ನು ಸ್ವಲ್ಪ ದೂರ ಮಾತ್ರ " ಆದ್ದರಿಂದ ಒಂದು ತರ್ಕ ಅಥವಾ ಚರ್ಚೆಯ ಮತ್ತು ಒಂದು ಜಗಳದ ಅವಶ್ಯಕತೆ ಏನಿದೆ ಸ್ನೇಹಿತರೆ ?*

*ನಮ್ಮೆಲ್ಲರ ಈ ಜೀವನ ಎಷ್ಟೊಂದು ನಶ್ವರ ಮತ್ತು ಚಿಕ್ಕದಾಗಿದೆ....? ಜಗಳಗಳಿಂದಲೋ, ಅನಾವಶ್ಯಕವಾದ ತರ್ಕಗಳಿಂದಲೋ, ಧ್ವೇಷಗಳಿಂದಲೋ, ಯಾರನ್ನೂ ಕ್ಷಮಿಸದೆ ಇರುವುದರಿಂದಲೋ ನಮ್ಮ ಬದುಕ್ಕನ್ನು ಇರುಳಾಗಿಸುವುದಕ್ಕಲ್ಲ ನಮ್ಮ ಜೀವನ.*

*ನಿಮ್ಮ ಹೃದಯವನ್ನು ಯಾರಾದರೂ ನೋಯಿಸಿದ್ದಾರಾ?ಅವರನ್ನು ಕ್ಷಮಿಸಿ. ಯಾಕೆಂದರೆ- ಒಟ್ಟಿಗಿನ ಈ ಪ್ರಯಾಣ  ಇನ್ನು ಸ್ವಲ್ಪ ದೂರ ಮಾತ್ರ.*

*ನಿಮ್ಮನ್ನು ಯಾರಾದರೂ ಅವಮಾನಿಸಿದರೇ? , ನಿಮ್ಮನ್ನು ಯಾರಾದರೂ ಮೋಸ ಮಾಡಿದರೇ?  ನಿಂದಿಸಿದರೇ?ಬೇಜಾರ್ ಮಾಡ್ಕೋಬೇಡಿ ಈ ಒಟ್ಟಿಗಿನ ಜೀವನಯಾತ್ರೆಯು ಇನ್ನು ಸ್ವಲ್ಪ ದೂರ ಮಾತ್ರ ಅಂತ ನೆನೆದುಕೊಂಡರೆ ಸಾಕು.*

*ನಿಮ್ಮ ಹತ್ತಿರದ ಸ್ನೇಹಿತರು ಅಥವಾ ಸಂಬಂಧಿಕರಿಂದ ನೀವು ಶಿಕ್ಷಿಸಲ್ಪಟ್ಟರೆ, ಚಿಂತಿಸಬೇಡಿ . ಅವರೊಟ್ಟಿಗಿನ ಈ ಜೀವನದ ಪಯಣವು ಇನ್ನು ಸ್ವಲ್ಪ ದೂರ ಮಾತ್ರ.*

*ಮನಸಲ್ಲಿ ಪ್ರೀತಿ, ಸ್ನೇಹ, ಮಾಧುರ್ಯವನ್ನು ತುಂಬಿಕೊಳ್ಳಿ. ಅವು ನಿಮಗೆ ಒಂದು ಅನುಗ್ರಹವಾಗಿವೆ. ಶತ್ರುಗಳಿಗೋ ಅಥವಾ ಧ್ವೇಷಿಸುವವರಿಗೋ ಸಿಗದ ಒಂದಾಗಿದೆ ಅವು.*

*ಆದ್ದರಿಂದ ಇನ್ನುಳಿದ ಕಾಲ ಸಂತೋಷದಿಂದಲೂ, ಸ್ನೇಹದಿಂದಲೂ ಪರೋಪಕಾರದಿಂದಲೂ ಪರಸ್ಪರ ಕ್ಷಮಿಸುತ್ತಾ, ಸಹಿಸುತ್ತಾ  ಮುಂದೆ ಸಾಗೋಣ.*

*ಹಿಂತಿರುಗಲಾಗದ , ಯಾವಾಗ ಯಾರು ಯಾವ ಸ್ಟಾಪಲ್ಲಿ ಇಳಿಯುವರು ಎಂದು ಮುಂಚೆನೇ ಹೇಳಲಾಗದ ಈ ಪ್ರಯಾಣವು  " ಇನ್ನು ಸ್ವಲ್ಪ ದೂರ ಮಾತ್ರ "-*

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ಒಬ್ಬ ಮರದ ಕೆಲಸದವನು ರಾತ್ರಿ ತನ್ನ ಕೆಲಸವನ್ನು ಮುಗಿಸಿ ಎಂದಿನಂತೆ ತನ್ನ ಅಂಗಡಿಯನ್ನು ಮುಚ್ಚಿ ಮನೆಗೆ ಹೊರಡುತ್ತಾನೆ. ಆ ಹೊತ್ತಿನಲ್ಲಿ ಒಂದು ದೊಡ್ಡ ಹಾವೊಂದು ಅಂಗಡಿಗೆ ನುಗ್ಗುತ್ತದೆ. ಅಲ್ಲಿ ತನಗೆ ಏನಾದರೂ ಆಹಾರ ಸಿಗಬಹುದೆಂದು ಅತ್ತ ಇತ್ತ ತಿರುಗುತ್ತದೆ. ಹಾವು ಹಾಗೆ ತಿರುಗುತ್ತಿರುವಾಗ,  ಅಲ್ಲಿರುವ ಎರಡು ಬದಿಯಲ್ಲಿಯೂ ಹರಿತವಾಗಿರುವ ಒಂದು ಗರಗಸಕ್ಕೆ ತಾಗಿ ಅದಕ್ಕೆ ಸಣ್ಣದಾದ ಗಾಯವಾಗುತ್ತದೆ. ಹಾವಿಗೆ ಸಿಟ್ಟು ಬಂದು ಆ ಗರಗಸಕ್ಕೆ ಕಚ್ಚುತ್ತದೆ. ಆಗ ಅದರ ಬಾಯಿಗೆ  ಕೂಡ ಗಾಯವಾಗುತ್ತದೆ. ಇದರಿಂದ ಹಾವಿನ ಸಿಟ್ಟು ಮತ್ತಷ್ಟು ಹೆಚ್ಚಾಗುತ್ತದೆ. ಕೂಡಲೇ ಅದು ಆ ಗರಗಸಕ್ಕೆ ಗಟ್ಟಿಯಾಗಿ ಸುತ್ತಿಕೊಂಡು ತನ್ನ ಹಿಡಿತವನ್ನು ಬಲಪಡಿಸುತ್ತದೆ. ಮರುದಿನ ಬೆಳಿಗ್ಗೆ ಮರದ ಕೆಲಸದವನು ತನ್ನ ಅಂಗಡಿಯನ್ನು ತೆರೆದಾಗ ಅವನಿಗೆ ಗರಗಸದಲ್ಲಿ ಸುತ್ತಿಕೊಂಡು ಸತ್ತಿದ್ದ ಹಾವು ಕಾಣುತ್ತದೆ.

ಆದರೆ ಹಾವು ಬೇರೆಯವರ ಆಕ್ರಮಣದಿಂದ ಸಾಯಲಿಲ್ಲ, ಬದಲಿಗೆ ತನ್ನದೇ ಆದ ಸಿಟ್ಟು ಮತ್ತು ಹಠದಿಂದ ಸತ್ತಿತ್ತು.

ನಮಗೆ ಕೂಡ ಸಿಟ್ಟು ಬಂದಾಗ ನಾವು ಸಹಿತ ಆ ಹಾವಿನ ಹಾಗೆ, ಸಿಟ್ಟು ಮತ್ತು ಹಗೆಯಿಂದ ಎದುರಾಳಿಗೆ ನಷ್ಟ ಮಾಡಲು ಪ್ರಯತ್ನ ಪಡುತ್ತೇವೆ. ಆದರೆ ಸ್ವಲ್ಪ ಸಮಯದ ನಂತರ ಅದರಿಂದಾಗಿ ನಮಗೆ ಹೆಚ್ಚು ಹಾನಿಯಾದದ್ದು ಗಮನಕ್ಕೆ ಬರುತ್ತದೆ.

ನಾವು ಸಂತೋಷದಿಂದ ಜೀವಿಸಲು ಕೆಲವೊಂದು ವಸ್ತು, ಜನರು, ಘಟನೆ ಹಾಗು ವಿಷಯಗಳನ್ನು ಕಡೆಗಣಿಸಬೇಕಾಗುತ್ತದೆ.

ನಾವು ಪ್ರತಿಕ್ರಿಯೆ ತೋರಿಸುವ ಅಗತ್ಯತೆ ಇದ್ದಲ್ಲಿ ಮಾತ್ರ ಪ್ರತಿಕ್ರಿಯೆ ತೋರಿಸಬೇಕೆ ವಿನಹ ಎಲ್ಲದಕ್ಕೂ ಪ್ರತಿಕ್ರಿಯೆ ತೋರಿಸಲು ಹೋದಲ್ಲಿ ಅನವಶ್ಯಕವಾಗಿ ನಾವು ಹಾನಿಗೊಳಬೇಕಾಗುವ ಪ್ರಸಂಗವೂ ಬರಬಹುದು.

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SMS Jokes , funny text shares , Humour , Witty quotes , Greetings - Part 28

ಬೇರೆ ಬೇರೆ ವೃತ್ತಿಯಲ್ಲಿರೋ ಗಂಡಂದಿರೊಡನೆ ಅವರವರ ಹೆಂಡತಿಯರು ಜಗಳವಾಡೋ ಶೈಲಿ:


1. ಪೈಲಟ್ ಹೆಂಡತಿ: ಜಾಸ್ತಿ ಹಾರಡಬೇಡಿ.

2. ಟೀಚರ್ ಹೆಂಡತಿ: ನನಗೇ ಹೇಳಿ ಕೊಡೋಕೆ ಬರಬೇಡಿ.

3. ಪೇಂಟರ್ ಹೆಂಡತಿ: ಬಣ್ಣ ಬದಲಾಯಿಸಬೇಡಿ.

4. ನಟನ ಹೆಂಡತಿ: ನಾಟಕ ಮಾಡ್ಬೇಡಿ

5. ಧೋಬಿ ಹೆಂಡತಿ: ಒಗೆದ್ ಹಾಕಿ ಬಿಡ್ತೀನಿ

6. ಡೆಂಟಿಸ್ಟ್ ಹೆಂಡತಿ: ಹಲ್ಲುದುರಿಸಿಬಿಡ್ತೀನಿ

7. C.A. ಹೆಂಡತಿ: ಲೆಕ್ಕ ಚುಕ್ತಾ ಮಾಡಿಬಿಡ್ತೀನಿ

8. ಇಂಜಿನಿಯರ್ ಹೆಂಡತಿ: ಪಾರ್ಟ್ಸ್ ಎಲ್ಲ ರಿಪೇರಿ ಮಾಡಿಬಿಡ್ತೀನಿ.

9. ಆರ್ಕಿಟೆಕ್ಟ್ ಹೆಂಡತಿ: ಮುಖದ ಡಿಸೈನ್ನ್ನೆ ಬದಲಾಯಿಸಿಬಿಡ್ತೀನಿ.

10. ಮಾರ್ಕೆಟಿಂಗ್ ಎಗ್ಸಿಕ್ಯುಟಿವ್ ಹೆಂಡತಿ: ಜಾಸ್ತಿ ಮಾತಾಡಿದ್ರೆ OLX ನಲ್ಲಿ ಮಾರಿಬಿಡ್ತೀನಿ.. ಹುಷಾರ್!

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Do this in ur mobile immediately....

One motorist met with an accident. He was unconscious. One cab driver stopped the cab and called ambulance and police. He took the mobile of that guy to call the family members of that guy. Luckily that guy hasnt locked his mobile. But what if the mobile was locked(which we usually are habituated to keep) how would have we reached the family members of that guy. There is a solution to that problem. Most of us use android phones,  we have cc called owner's info which will scroll on the lock screen. You don't need to enter any password to view the owner info. This will be continuously scrolling on the screen. Go to settings ->security-> lock screen-> owners info. Enter your details like your name and emergency contact number.    This will take just 2 mins to implement. It will be helpful if you loose your phone or god forbid if something bad happens. Please forward this to your groups. This will save someone life one day

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Pyaas lagi thi gazab ki....magar pani me zeher tha
Peetay tho marjatay aur na peetay tho bhi marjatay..ll
Bas yahi do maslay zindagi bhar na hal hue
Na neend poori hui...na khwaab mukammal hue..ll
Waqt ne kaha....kaash thoda aur sabr hota
Sabr ne kaha...kaash thoda aur waqt hota..ll
Subah subah uthna padta hai kamaane k liye saaheb..
Aaram kamaane nikalta hu aaram chodkar..ll
"Hunar" sadko par tamasha karta hai....aur kismat mehlon me raaj karti hai..ll
Shikayate tho bahot hai tujhse aye zindagi, par chup isliye hun ke jo diya tune wo bhi bahuto ko naseeb nahi hota....ll
Daulat ki bhuk aisi lagi ki kamane nikal gaye,
Jab daulat mili toh hath se rishte nikal gaye,
Bachon ke sath rahne ki fursat na mil saki,
Fursat mili to bache khud kamane nikal gye.

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An old man was lying on his deathbed. With only hours to live, he suddenly smelt chocolate chip cookies wafting up from the kitchen. Driven on by his favourite smell, he somehow managed to pull himself out of bed, across the floor to the stairs, and slowly down the stairs to the kitchen. There, the old man’s wife was baking chocolate chip cookies. With his last bit of energy, mustering everything he had left, he reached for a cookie only to get his hand slapped. 'No,' the wife snapped, 'these are for the funeral!'

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Good message
When flood comes, fish eats ants and when flood recedes, ants eat fish. Only time matters. Just hold on. Nature gives opportunity to every one.In a theatre when drama plays, you opt for front seats. When film is screened, you opt for rear seats. Your position in life is only relative. Not absolute.For making soap, oil is required. But to clean oil, soap is required. This is the irony of life.Every problem has (N+1) solutions: where N is the number of solutions that you have tried and 1 is that you have not tried."Only two category of people are happy in life - the Mad and the Child. Be Mad to achieve a goal. Be a Child to enjoy what you achieved."

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Two managers were walking through a jungle.
They saw a hungry tiger.
One of the guys started tightening his shoe laces, getting ready to run.
The other asked, "Do you really think you can run faster than the tiger?"
He replied, "I don't have to run faster than the tiger; I just have to run faster than you!!"

That's today's CORPORATE WORLD.

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एक हैदराबादी परिवार में बेटा स्कूल से रोता हुआ घर आया.

मां : काईकू रोरा ?

बेटा : टीचर मारी मेरेकू

मां : काईकू मारी चुडैल तेरेकू ?

बेटा : मैं मुर्गी बोला उसकू

मां : अरे काईकू ऐसा बोला रे ?

बेटा : काईकू बोले तो ? हर पेपर में आंडा देरी मेरेकू.

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One of the BEST msg  , Worth reading-

A group of friends visited their old university professor.

Conversation soon turned to complaints about

'STRESS' & 'TENSION' in Life.

Professor offered them Coffee & returned from kitchen with Coffee in different kinds of cups !!!

(Glass Cups, Crystal Cups, Shining Ones, Some Plain Looking, Some Ordinary & Some Expensive Ones......)

When all of them had a Cup in Hand,

the professor said:-

"If you noticed-

all the Nice Looking & Expensive Cups are taken up,

leaving behind the ordinary ones !!

Everyone of you wanted the Best CUPS,

&

that is the source of your STRESS & TENSION !!

What you really wanted was

"Coffee", not the "Cup" !

But you still went for the Best Cup.

If Life is Coffee ;

Then Jobs, Money, Status & Love etc. are the Cups !!!

They are just TOOLS to hold and contain Life.

Please Don't Let the CUPS Drive you !!

Enjoy the COFFEE ......!!!
What is life ?
They say its from B to D...from Birthday to Death..But what's between B  and D?
Its a  " C "  Choice ...
Our life is a matter of choices...
Live well and it will never go wrong....
Always have faith on your ability's.... You can do it...

Wonderful Quotes - worth following

One of our community friend has shared a list of quotes which they noticed on a calendar. We felt these are worth sharing on our blog too to reach our visitors.

"Life begins at the end of your comfort zone"

"An opportunity is created by Imagination"

"Imagination is the highest degree of research"

"The impossible is often untried"



"Self Trust is the first secret to success"

"Listen to your heart above all other voices"

"Each new sunrise is a promise"

"Goals are dreams with deadlines"

"A gem cannot be polished without friction"

"Leaders are not born , they are made"

"There is no winning without risking"

"Giving up is the only failure in life"

"Life is so much brighter when we focus on what truly matters"

"The smallest good deed is better than the biggest good intention"

"A quiet conscience makes one strong"

"Excellence is turning an ordinary into an Extraordinary"

"Don't wait for a perfect movement . Take the movement and make it perfect."

"Improvement is not enough, you also need Innovation"

"Small plans are easier to achieve than big ones"

"Ambition is forever with a purpose"

"Vision without action is a daydream"

"The only failure which lacks dignity is the failure to try"

"Work done with passion delivers a master piece"

"Leadership is the ability to translate vision into reality"

"To be prepared is half the victory"

"An optimist is the one who makes opportunities of his difficulties"

"One sees obstacles only when he takes his eyes off his goal"

"Always do what you are afraid to do"

Hope you enjoyed the quotes . Do share above quotes if worth with your loved ones and let the good message reach.

Wisdom Quotes Wisdom thoughts

In this post , we bring out collections of wisdom quotations and thoughts from various personalities and sources which shall be constantly updated . If you like these , share the good work with your facebook , google friends with just a click and help the good messages reach.

Children should be given good education to bring in peace to the world - Mahatma Gandhiji

One who shares his food with others will never be suffering from hunger - Thiruvalluvar

If you are not confident with yourself , then you are not confident about God as well - Swami Vivekananda

What is God ? It is the breath of the breathe - Kabeer

I have nothing to give to God . Hence i gave myself - GuruNanak

One who are ready to become public servants are really great persons - Dr.B.R.Ambedkhar

Happiness is nothing but good health and bad memories 
Difficulties one faces who follows dharma, Happiness one gets with Adharma always remain for a shorter period - finally what wins is Dharma - Dharmaraya

Experience is the greatest teacher. Learning till we breathe , Gaining Knowledge should be one's life goals - Swami Vivekananda


An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind - Mahathma Gandhiji

One earns respect in society when he delivers what he promised - ThinkBangalore collections

We are first Indians and then later Hindus,Muslims and Christians - Mahathma Gandhiji

Its not just sufficient to learn moral values , but should always apply them - Jawaharlal Nehru

To advise a fool , is like making a fire ritual using ashes - Mahabharatha

Your good qualities are your ornaments which no one can snatch  - ThinkBangalore collections

To make a good decision , its requires awareness not the counts - Pluto


Instead of winning thousands of enemies outside, it is better to win oneself - Mahaveera

If you want to donate to poor people publicly it is good , but it is better to donate in personal and avoid publicity - Quran

Happiness is not a goal. Its a byproduct of a goal - Eleanor Roosevelt

Criticize your friend in a lone place , But praise him in front of others - Emerson

There are two categories of people in this world. One who live and still remain dead and others who live even after dead. I would like to belong to the second category - Master Hirannaya

If there are 100 reasons for being unhappy , there are 1000 reasons for being happy - we need to always try to find out those reasons and remain happy - ThinkBangalore collection

All the biographies of great personalities have one thing in common , they always tried once more after facing failure  - ThinkBangalore collection

It is not a wise idea to spoil your health for a non guaranteed profit - P.B.Shelly

No one grants independence , it comes from struggle - Subhash Chandra Bose

Knowledge is the light for life's happiness - Khaleel Gibran 

A man does not become corrupt when in power , but gets corrupt with the greed of retaining power - John Steinbeck

When you know What you know and What you don't know then you get knowledge - Confucius

Ignorance is like a curse , Knowledge is the wings to heaven - William Shaksephere

One who does not have courage is a poorest of the poor , how can one come out of disease without courage - Shakespeare

Keep it simple in every aspect , your work will be simple just like picking a flower from a plant - Shivaram Karanth

If we try to do anything which we don't respect , happiness stays far from us - Freya Starc

A person who is not progressing can be immediately identified as a fool - Premchand

We lose when we forget our principles and focus on goals - Jawaharlal Nehru

The easiest way to handle future is by taking care of present. Without handling this it is difficult to construct tomorrows - Francis Beckon

Those enemies are trustable who say the rough truth than those friends who say sweet lies - Robert Bralt

It is a great sin to advise philosophy for a person who is starving from hunger - Swami Vivekananda

Decision Making is a mind's thing , If the mind's thoughts are not accepted by heart , it should be rejected - Mahathma Gandhiji

One who does not know how to lead a happy life is not at all a human - Sarvagna


A teacher without self learning cannot teach another person just like a candle which cannot lit other candles until it is lit - Rabindranath Tagore

Good advises are not always respected. That does not mean you should stop giving good advises - Agaatha christi 


A luck person gets an opportunity , a wise man creates an opportunity , but only the one who utilizes the opportunity in a good way succeeds - Swami Vivekananda

From small experiences once may learn big truths - SaiBaba

While in travel , knowledge is a friend . While at home , wife is a friend . While at disease , medicine is a friend - Chanakya

To be a ideal husband is more difficult than being a ideal priest - Swami Vivekananda

Money is not the cause for Failure. It is the power and capacity which matters - Daniel Webstar


Money earned from injustice and illegal means do not provide satisfaction - Panje Mangesharaya

A great character is one who does not feel happy finding mistakes in others and who does not give way to develop qualities for others to find mistakes in them - Bhagavad Geetha

It is not wise to think about the future black day without being happy with the existing full moon day - Dr.Nizaar Ahmed


Real dream is not the one which we get during sleeping. The one which keeps us awake with sleepless nights is the real dream - Dr.A P J Abdul Kalam

If I have to tell what I have learnt from life after seeing all the worlds , I would say - "Life moves on" - Robert Frost

Living Life is the most seldom thing in this world, most of them just live , that's it - Oscar Wild


Live as if it's your last day on earth , Keep Learning as if you will live forever on this earth - Mahatma Gandhiji

Problems are not Stop points. They are directions - Robert Shiller

We are never old to have new dreams and new goals - C.A.Louis

To progress ahead in any work , first step is to start off - Mark Twayne

Having faith is life , suspicion is death - Ramakrishna Paramahamsa

He one wins the world - who does not lose faith during difficulties , who  does not show pride during riches , who does not fear while doing any work - KathasarithaSagar

One cannot fulfill big tasks unless he puts on good hard work - Sir. M.V

Laziness is a violent disease - Gandhiji

God has no religion - M.Gandhiji

An ordinary teacher only says, A good teacher explains well while a great teacher explains with an example - William Arthurword

I am thankful for my father for the fact of living . I am thankful for my teacher for the fact I am living well - Alexander


Every new minute is there to indicate something new is possible , do not worry about the past - D.R.Bendre

One should not alone take decision on a important matter - Panchathanthra

Profession never cheats a person , but a person may cheat his profession - Russian Proverb

Whenever possible always be piteous , It is always possible - Dalai Lama

If you think something is not correct , try to correct it . When the correction doesn't happen , change your thinking - Maya Angelo

Those who sacrifice their Ego for a position , they are good men - Barthrihari

You become weak and stressed when you get angry . Anger affects even a self motivated person - Vinodha Bhave




Live and let others live - Gautham Buddha

Sun, moon and truth. These 3 cannot be hidden for long time - Gautham Buddha


I know what I am , but I should also know what I am not am - Shakesphere

Instead of telling "Yes Will do" to satisfy someone , to avoid problems it is better to say "No,I cannot" with a pure heart - Mahathma Gandhiji

It is not just enough to know morals , but should apply follow them - Jawaharlal Nehru

There is no use to perform rounds around a temple without focused mind - Sarvagna


For a hungry person, god comes in the form of food - Mahathma Gandhiji

A man who is not having a penny is not poor , but a man who is not having dreams is poor - Swami Vivekananda

When you want to climb up , you have to hold the stem and branch , not the flowers and fruits - African Proverb

Just like a lamp light would not exist  without oil , man would not exist without god - Ramakrishna Paramahamsa

Our first responsibility should be not to underrate our-self - Swami Vivekananda 

Every child which takes birth indicates a good message that God is still not sad about humans - Ravindranath Tagore

The fruits and respect gained from hard work lasts long - Gandhiji

Only with good health one can achieve great success and heights - Swami Vivekananda

A wise man should not do a work which insults others - Ramayana

Sometimes we fail when we try to express exceeding our limits - Swami ViveKananda 

Whatever work you do , you should put your heart,mind and soul to it to succeed - Swami Vivekananda


Those who adjust with Disrespect,Humiliation,Rejection,Hesitation will never come up - Shankaracharya

One should not speak words which would hurt others - Mahaveera

If one learns how to be a slave under a master , he automatically earns the qualities of a master - Swami Vivekananda

During a fight , he who knocks down the other is not a winner always. He who controls anger is also a winner - Gokule

Mind is the source of all activities , one cannot perform great activities unless mind is kept pure - SharadaDevi

It is better to have an enemy who is intelligent rather than having a friend who is stupid - Shakespeare

A creative person doesn't get poor , A silent person doesn't invite quarrels , A cautious person doesn't fear - Panchathantra

One who cheats others and uses that money for donation reaches hell - Mahabharatha

A egoist always has a doubtful mind - Shivaram Karanth

In bhakthi , there is dedication , no requirement - Ravindranath Tagore 

Humans don't move forward to learn from other's mistakes , they learn after meeting with problems themselves - Vinodha Bhave

One who condemns other languages is usually lack knowledge of his own language - Garaate

To achieve something on this earth one has to seed in its feel - Kuvempu

He has attained freedom who rules himself without spoiling others - D.R.Bendhre

Everything goes a waste when a person does work with Egoism - Kabeer

He who leaves vanity is lovable by everyone - Mahabharatha

Life is nothing but a fair of experiences - Shivaram Karanth

You should always try to beat yourself everytime and it should be practiced throughout your life - Chrisitina

Being tolerant when wealthy , being patient during problems , being courageous during war are essential qualities - Batruhaari

The best ready medicine for mind is nothing else than silence - Bhagavad Gita

When we try to show the power which we do not posses we fail - Swami Vivekananda

Don't stay back in front of problems , rather face them - George Marshal

Nobody can be great without making mistakes - Mother Teresa

There is always a danger with Inexperience and without knowledge - Tirumale Rajamma

Self Demotivation is bad when compared to Self appraisal . It brings down ones value - B.M.Sreekantaya

The biggest enemy of a angry person is his anger. It will not let him go without destroying him - Tiruvalavar

We should always practice to do our own work ourselves. Hands are one of the most valuable asset man has - Gandhiji

Good deeds done to create impression are really not good . Deeds done having the fear of impression are bad - China Proverb

Big achievements cannot be made by cheating . Only With love and real
interest one can achieve high levels - Periar Ramaswamy Naikar

Laziness is death, Occupation is life - Swami RamaTheertha

When it comes to superstitious , wise men follow the words of foolish men - Francis Beken

There is no better religion than showing Sympathy towards others , There is no better weapon than apologizing one's mistake - GuruNanak

Coward people always drink the salt water from their father's plowed well - Panchatanthra

He is a fool who does not depend on the current opportunity and thinks of still better opportunity in future - Mahabharata

An oil in water , knowledge in wise men expand with self strength - Chanakya

Do not regret about people talking behind you, Be happy that you are ahead of them - Alexander

A good poet always realizes his mistakes and work , A bad poet always thinks no one is better than him - Kuvempu

The path never ends till we keep walking , there are endless opportunities till we keep accepting them , these are world's message to us - V.Gokhak

A work once done should be taken care and tested such that it does not repeat - Vyasa

If our minds are pure , it and we will be strong - Gandhiji

A selfish mind cannot have love - Premachand

Being quiet when speaking out is expected & speaking out when being quite is expected are both mistakes - Syed Saadi

Every problem has a solution. With this faith , every difficulty is solved - Aaluru Venkataraya

The work done with self satisfaction without worrying about the returns ,does not make us sad even when we get cheated from it - DVG

Sometimes it is not possible to change one's character by just guidance just like water cools back after heating - Panchatantra

It is better to leave our life as a message to speak on rather than we speaking about ourselves - Gandhiji

Real religion is about respecting other religions - Mahabharata

Wise people always first try to realize their mistakes - Swami Vivekananda

A cheerful person can never be poor - Hitchcock

The dearest friend of a liar is "Fear" . The dearest friend of a truthful person is "No Fear" - Jawaharlal Nehru

A person always travels in the right direction when he has control over his senses - Barhtruhaari

There is no religion like Truth and no sin like being Untruth , hence it is not good to disrepute truth - Ramayana

In general there are no friends and foes , all take birth from business.When one makes enemies as his friends enemies are destroyed - Abraham Lincoln

It is always better to speak less than we we know about a matter - William Shakespeare

Politeness and Confidence are two essential characters required in life - Mark Twine

If we have to move forward in our life , we should learn from other's mistakes constantly and apply them - Dr.Ambedkar

Music is man's most effective way to induce feeling. It helps to forget difficulties and relax for a moment - T.Choudaya

Egoism or Ahankara means to keep collecting , travelling . It always expects recognition - Ravindranath Tagore

The Enthusiam a person has is the only assest in his life - Tiruvalavar

Insects affect crops , Desire affects humans - Gautam Buddha

Always any work which brings in great satissfaction at last should be done - Yogavashishta

Our wealth increases when we quit jealous - Pluto

Always keep laughing when you can , it is a good medicine - Byran

Just like creating a poem , enjoying the poem is also a creative Art - Kuvempu

A great quote on WATCH

What to watch when you watch your watch!

Watch your Word

Watch your Action

Watch your Thoughts

Watch your Character

Watch your  Heart